Wednesday, May 12, 2010

Together in Unity

Technology makes everything possible. Time and location are no longer become problem to communicate. But will it replace the feeling of togetherness? Here we will discuss two things which could maintain the relationship between family member.

First is family meeting. Celebrate thanksgiving and Mother’s day could unite family even they who lived far away from home. Helping each other to prepare a meal is a very priceless moment in these years. Create this habit in the family since there is a kid. They will learn to respect togetherness and then transfer it to their children too one day.

Second is playing a game together. You could play bingo or scrabble or word search. You could also play outdoor activity like football, basketball or softball. Winner or loser is not important when you are together. The winner could get the present and the loser could sing to entertain others. You could also add your idea based on how is the culture of your family.

Thursday, June 18, 2009

Applying My Writing

Hi! Hi! how are you? I hope you're doing fine ;). I am now building my momentum, like I have mentioned before on my previous post. Well, I want to be a good writer, so I am trying to write a good quality writing and I hope you are ready to read all of my writing results here. I will post my writing here and you could give me comment on that. It is not necessary but I will be very happy if you do.

If you want to be a good writer, do not be afraid to share your opinion on something. Be creative to make a title and be brave to write it. I know that I am lack of opinion sharing, so I am learning to do it now. Well, if you want to be an expert on a certain subject, do not be afraid. Train yourself everyday. Practice it every day. You will find it someday that you are growing better and better and you are about to success. And the good things is, you will not realize it that you actually have succeeds in your efforts.

Wednesday, June 17, 2009

Want to be an Expert? Build Your Momentum!

I do not know whether all of you have ever heard about this or not. I mean, have you ever heard about "momentum"? Okay, this is not about chemistry lessons. I am talking about a constant habit. Have you ever played The Sims? When the player do not like Sci-Fi topics, you must give her/him a Sci-Fi magazine everyday. this will create their interest about Sci-Fi and they could get their couple. This relationship could be closer than before. Wait, I am not going to talk about The Sims.

Okay, back to the topic. I once ever learn and read about this thing. MOMENTUM. When you want to be an expert in writing, you must write at least one writing a day and do it everyday. Do not stop. just do it. no matter how bad your writing, no matter how it scatter every where, just write. it will help you top build your momentum. You have to do this for about six month continuosly and do not stop. Believe or not, you will never stop after it.

Do you remember about the statements "Practices make perfect"? Well, that's what you do. By building your momentum, you are not only practising, but you are also improving your ability and creating your habit. When you read everyday, at least for one hour, you will be a good reader and you will be able to write. When you speaking in front of the mirror every morning for at least 30 minutes everyday, you will be able to speak in front of the publics.

So, from now on, decide who you want to be. Determine your dreams. Practice everyday. Do it continuosly. Build your momentum. The successes are waiting for you.

How to Choose The Next Book to Read

Do you love reading? Have you ever stuck and don't know what to read next? Well I could give you several tips to do when you are looking for a new book to read. Are you ready?

First, you could go to the bookstore. There you could find many books from many authors and topics. Do not bother to choose one quickly. Browse slowly and make sure that you read the summary at the back of the book. This to make sure that you don't buy the wrong book. Many cases happen when people choose the book by its cover or by its thickness and they finally come up with a huge pile of unread books. This is so pity. You spend your money at the bookstore for a pile of unread books. So, be patient, browse slowly and when your heart feels 'click' with a book, it might be the book you are looking for.

Second, you could go to the library. There are many library, such as city library or university library or your school library. Do not afraid to ask some helps from the librarian. I am sure that they will help you (except the bad librarian, but I am sure that not all librarian is bad. lol. ) library usually has specification for each book. Here you do not have to browse for all books. just choose the non text book. You know, library is identical with text book..lol.. or is it just me? I don't know.

Third, you could simply ask a recommendation from your friends. I am sure that you have at least one friend who likes to read (not loves, because I find it difficult to have friend with the same hobby), so ask them about the new updated books or the old book but you have never read it yet. it will be great. Or you could have a discussion with your friend about a book. you read it together and discuss about it. It must be fun!

Fourth, join a community or bookclub or newsletter about new books. There you will get the updated news about new books plus you could hang out with the book lovers and spend time with them to read the books. Sounds interesting? Why don't you start it now?

Tuesday, June 16, 2009

About me

I am just a simple girl. I have nothing to be proud of but God who leads my way. I am not rich yet not beautiful. I learn day by day about life and I love to share to others. I am not perfect. I often fail. I often cry. I often fall. But I always stand up again and open a new page of my life day by day. I learn to erase my bad past and change it into a better future. Would you like to join me?

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